As many of you have noticed on my instagram account I often use #fatpants for the indulgent recipes and it’s become one of your favorites as well. What you don’t know is that while it started out as a funny hash it ended up turning into something a bit more serious. The truth about fat pants is that I was actively working to pack on 15-20 pounds for a very important reason.
Over a year ago we met with our favorite Doctor, Dr Haskett to discuss the possibility of having another baby. You can update yourself on THIS post and why we were concerned. We were told the best thing to do would be gain 15-20 pounds and get on prenatal vitamins so my body could store up. Months later I was trying hard to pack on the pounds and seriously, it was harder than you would think. I lose so much weight while pregnant that we needed a buffer but because my body is put through so much I also needed to be as strong and healthy as I could. Kind of hard to do both, but it was a simple sacrifice.
So You’re Pregnant
And now here’s the truth, I’m currently 9 weeks pregnant and things have been rough, but every day has an amazing blessing. We can’t believe we get to expand our family. It is truly amazing. But I’m going to be real with you, it’s hard. I’ve got something called Hyperemesis Gravidarum (more on that later), but it’s basically extreme nausea and vomiting. I’m hooked up to IV’s at the hospital about 3 times a week to try to fight back against the vomiting and dehydration. I struggle to keep anything, even a simple ice chip down. It’s frustrating and hard to have nothing in me and be so dehydrated, but we know that we can endure this, we’ve done it twice before. We just need to stay positive.
What’s This Mean For The Blog?
What’s this mean for the blog? Well, we prepared before this happened so I’ve got posts scheduled out and guest posts coming in. I hope you’ll stick with us and I’ll try to share our journey as much as I’m able, but it’s proven quite difficult to have any energy or ability to work, but I’m going to try to stay in touch the best I can.
We are so excited and knew that with such fantastic and supportive readers we just had to take this journey with all of you. So here’s to trying to stay out of the hospital as much as we can and survive this. Hooray for a baby!
Margaret
Just came across you and your blog today.
Hope your feeling better!
Wishing you and your family the best!
A prayer is on it’s way!
Warm regards,
M
Sweet Basil
So sweet of you. Thank you!
Lydia @ Suitcase Foodist
Prayers flying your way – for you and your sweet family and especially baby. Peace and love.
Sweet Basil
So sweet of you, Lydia. Thank you!
Becky
Sweet friend, I will be praying you through these next 8 months!! May you find your strength in the Lord!
Kristy
Hang in there sweet friend!! Excited for you and your family and thinking of you lots!!
Sweet Basil
mwah!!!
Emily Hill
Keeping everything possible crossed and keeping you and your family in my prayers. Sending lots of love your way.
Barbara @ Barbara Bakes
I’m so happy for you Carrian. I know it’s rough, but hang in there. It will be so worth it. Hugs!!
Sweet Basil
thank you my friend! xoxo
Julie
Congratulations, Carrian! Wishing you a safe and healthy pregnancy! Hoping your symptoms subside enough for you to enjoy it!
Lisa G
Congratulations on the new baby! My daughter had the same issue (I had never heard of it until then) and the doctor had a pump placed in her leg that delivered he anti-nausea cocktail so she didn’t have to go to the hospital. She had home health nurses come and give her an IV each week to help her with dehydration. It was tough seeing her on the bathroom floor for days. Showers were incredibly hard sometimes even slightly moving was difficult. My heart goes out to you knowing what you are going through!
She actually had one month almost exactly in the middle of the pregnancy that she could get up and actually eat.
She wasn’t prepared for the illness so it hit her pretty hard. Now she knows and watch – after she packs on the extra weight for the next one she will have a normal pregnancy (:
Prayers for a super quick pregnancy!
Sweet Basil
Lisa, thank you for your comment. It sounds like her and I are the exact same. It’s a rough go for sure. 🙁 Worth it in the end though!
Miss @ Miss in the Kitchen
Many, many prayers for your family.
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much! xoxo
Nicky Laurenzi
You are such an amazing, open and truthful woman – good luck and god bless
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much!
Jocelyn @BruCrew Life
Oh, sweetie, I am here for you if you need anything!!! I am so excited and happy for you in this pregnancy! You are seriously the cutest little pregnant mama!!! I can’t even imagine the sickness you are enduring, but it will be all worth it when you hold that sweet little one in your arms. My prayers will be with you through all of this. Sending hugs!!!!
Sweet Basil
That means so much to us! Thank you so, so much! xoxo
Ally’s Sweet & Savory Eats
First off, congrats! Babies are such a blessing. Our bodies take the heat though….and for that reason I’m praying the nausea/vomiting will end soon. Start each day new and look forward to holding that little guy/girl in your arms!
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much!
Charla Childs
Congratualtions!!! Horray for the Baby!! You take care of yoursself and the baby! We will all be waiting right here when you get well! God bless you and your new baby and your family on your very exciting time!
Sweet Basil
Thankyou so much for your support! xoxo
Donna
Your very brave to go through this again !! All the best !! Looks like you have Great support !! And sooooooo many good wishes are going your way !! We will all send our thoughts and prayers your way and we will ” Absolutely ” be here for your return !! Love ” Sweet Basil ” !!! ❤️
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much Donna!
Meredith
Congratulations, good luck & stay healthy!!
I totally get what you’re going through. Back in my early 20s I got pregnant (subsequent miscarriage) and I, too, had EXTREME morning sickness that would put me in the hospital on IVs for dehydration as well. To say it sucked would be putting it quite mildly. Hang in there!
Sweet Basil
Exactly! It’s a rough one and I’m so sorry for your loss. Much love!
Ageliki
My sincere and best wishes for a good ending. Always keep in mind the moment you will hold your baby in your arms and I hope this will give you strength to carry on. You see for me it was easy having three children since I did not have to go through HG. Nevertheless I feel and pray for all those of you who were not as lucky as others of us but stronger in their soul and heart to try and get a baby. In Greece their is a saying “You are not born a parent but you become one”. Please forgive my english but let me tell you this my heart and thoughts and prays will be with you and your family and with all these people like you, like my sister and my sister in law and many other friends. Hang on….
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much! It means the world to us that so many are supporting us.
Arlie DuPlessis
I’m so sorry to hear about your health concerns! It’s amazing what we mothers will do for our children. I subscribed to your blog a couple of months ago and look forward to the emails every week! I love the recipes and the great comments. I’m sending good thoughts your way! Best of luck on your difficult journey. As I know you know, it will be so worth it in the end, and your kids are lucky to have you as their mom!!
Sweet Basil
What a sweet comment. Thank you for brightening our day!
Charlie
Carrion:
I am so happy for you, that you are having another bundle of joy!
I will be praying for all of you, but especially for you and your health and the health of the baby.
The pregnancy may seem long at times but it will be so worth it.
God Bless
Charlie
Sweet Basil
Charlie, Thank you so much! It will be worth it for sure!
Jaime
Congratulations! I’ll be praying for you and your family as you go through this joyous, but arduous journey.
S
Congratulations! I just had my second baby and, as you already know, your struggles now are worth the end result. What you’re going through sounds so tough though – stay strong and hold on to your amazing positivity!
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much. They are definitely worth it!
Lisa Simpson
Congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope you start feeling better. I had morning sickness for the whole 9 months with my first daughter. I couldn’t keep anything down and it was frustrating. I never knew when it would hit me. I hope you have better days ahead. Love your recipes!!
Sweet Basil
Lisa, thank you so much. I usually end up with just morning sickness until the end so I feel your pain. It’s so hard!
Rosebud
You are so very, very brave knowing that you have to go through with all of this but you also know what a grand reward you will receive for enduring all this pain. You are my “mother of the year” for doing this. Many prayers coming your way and an angel is always at your side. Blessings!!
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much for your kind words. Looking forward to that sweet baby that will totally be worth it.
Roxana
Congratulations, Carrian! So happy for you and your family! Take care of yourself and stay strong! Let me know if there’s anything I can help with
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much!
Kayle (The Cooking Actress)
Wow-that is a lot to go through!! I’m so happy for you and your new little one and I hope that you’re able to stay healthy and happy <3
Sweet Basil
Thank you friend!
Jennifer
Congratulations and best wishes for a healthy baby!
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much!
Shirley
Awesome news….the baby I mean. I will keep y’all in my prayers. I am leaving the end of the month to walk the Appalachian trail so I’ll miss your posts for the next 5-6 months but I’ll have lots of time to pray for people….I look forward to hearing all about it when I get back and play catchup. Hugs…..
Sweet Basil
What an amazing adventure you’re heading out on. Enjoy it and take it all in for me. I’ll be thinking of you and your amazing trip!
Jan
Of course, we aren’t going anywhere! Be well and healthy and wishing you All the Best on the new baby!
Sweet Basil
Jan, so sweet of you. Thank you!!
Susan the farm quilter
Congratulations on the new baby!!! How very exciting that you are adding to your family. Take care of yourself and them – that’s what important! We’ll be here when you can post, no matter how far between posts! Prayers for you for strength and grace to get to the happy birthday!!
Sweet Basil
So, so sweet. THank you for supporting us!
Crista
My heart goes out to you! Hang in there, you know it’ll all be worth it in the end!1 🙂 Baby is lucky to have you!!
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much!
Rachel Matthews
I’m so excited for you! and I’ve been there, I had HG, too. sending you TONS of love and prayers <3
Sweet Basil
Oh, you know the pain of 4-6 times an hour throwing up and people offering gobs of advice about eating all day then! It means so much to know someone else has gone through this. xoxo!!
CArolyn
Hey! Congratulations! Wow, I thought my pregnancies were rough. All I had was a little thing called gestational diabetes. 🙂 I hope everything will go as smoothly as possible for you and the baby.
Sweet Basil
I’ve heard that’s rough too! I don’t know much about it, but what a strong woman you must be!
Chantiel
Oh I am so excited for you! (Just about the baby part, not the part about being so sick) hang in there girl, you are tough and I know you got this!
Sweet Basil
Thank you so much my friend!
Megan
Wow, I’m so surprised! You are so courageous and strong! After your last experience I had no idea if you’d try again; so much courage! I hate pregnancy, and mine weren’t even difficult.
Hang in there! And say ‘Hi’ to Dr. Hackett for me 🙂 (If that’s not too awkward)
Megan
Darn auto correct: Haskett
Sweet Basil
Haha, I’ll have to do that. much love!
Anna @ Crunchy Creamy Sweet
Congratulations!!! I will be praying for you and hopefully the nausea goes away soon! If you need another guest poster – just let me know!
Sweet Basil
That would be wonderful! You’ll have to shoot me an email. Thank you!!
Dani
Oh carrian I’m so sorry!
I get so so sick with our babies that I totally get this. I’m so nervous about what will happen if we decide to have another.
If you need another guest post please let me know! I would be happy to help out 🙂
<3
Dani
Sweet Basil
You all are amazing! Thank you so much and I’m so sorry you get sick! It’s so hard!
Renee
Congratulations! How lovely for your family. Id love to read end other post but your link isn’t working. 🙁
Stephanie @ Girl Versus Dough
Congratulations, Carrian! You and your family will be in my prayers as you go through this journey. xo
Sweet Basil
Stephanie, thank you so, so much!
Christy Denney
I’m so glad you shared here. Your readers are more loyal than you think and will carry you during this rough time. Praying for you. It will be worth it. You can do it. xoxo – christy
Sweet Basil
We do have such amazing readers and we are so grateful. Thank you so much my friend!
Caroline Edwards
Congratulations Carrian! I’m so sorry you’re experiencing such challenging pregnancy symptoms. I can’t even imagine. I hope it subsides soon and you’re able to keep food down soon! It’s a good thing babies are so cute…they make it all worth the pain during pregnancy! 😀
Sweet Basil
They are so worth it. I have to keep that in mind haha. Thank you!
Aggie
Congratulations!! Praying for you and a healthy safe pregnancy. I hope you have some help at home, love ya girl!
Sweet Basil
Thank you friend! xoxo!
Kathy Strahs
Oh wow, Carrian! I’m thrilled that you’re expanding your family and so sorry that you’ve had to endure so much in the process. You are one brave mama — I’ll be thinking of you and praying for you. Wishing you all the best. 🙂
Sweet Basil
Miss you and thank you so much. It means the world to us!
Megan {country Cleaver}
My heart is so full that your family is expanding!!! I am keeping you in my thoughts as you take this physical roller coaster one more time. Sending all my love and congratulations, Carrian!! XOXO!!
Sweet Basil
Thank you sweet lady! love you!
Rachel Cooks
Carrian!!! First off, congrats! What an exciting time. I’ll be keeping you in my prayers! Take care of yourself, let me know if you need anything. I’d be happy to guest post if you need more. xoxo
Congrats!!!!! 😀
Sweet Basil
I may need to take you up on that if you have time! Thank you so, so much!
Aimee @ ShugarySweets
Oh sweet friend, I’m so happy for you! My prayers are with you as you go through this blessed, yet difficult journey!! 🙂
Sweet Basil
What would I do without you?! Thank you so much for your support!
Melissa
Love you, lady! I’m rooting for you and Cade again and of course you’re in my prayers. Yay for baby!
Sweet Basil
Love you back!!
Jackie
Congrats and best wishes for a healthy pregnancy! At the end of it all you will be blessed with another beautiful child. Wishing you well!!!!
Sweet Basil
I cannot wait for that end result. Thank you!
Nicole Brown
SUCH exciting news!!!! CONGRATS!!! Wishing you all the best these upcoming difficult days ahead. There is most definitely strength in numbers coupled with positive encouragement. May your readers/followers kindness and support lift you as you journey through this pregnancy- and may the blessings of heaven stregthen your darling family. Together, and with the help of our loving Heavenly Father, you can pull through this- and when your new sweet baby is laying in your arms, it will all be SO worth it!!!! Lots of love.
Sweet Basil
What a sweet note. Thank you so, so much! It means the world to me. He definitely is being so good to us. There’s always a blessing to be found and I’m so amazed at that. The atonement doesn’t always heal physically when we want but it offers so much healing in other ways. XOXO!
Rachel Farnsworth
Oh Carrian, I know your pain. I have had HG with both of my pregnancies and have spent a lot of time in the hospital. I was lucky and got home health care on the last one so I could run an IV at home 24/7. I ended up getting diagnosed with Addison’s disease in the middle of my second pregnancy, but that’s an entirely different story. Hang in there! It’s a personal sacrifice that is hard for people to completely understand unless they have gone through it. You can do this!
Sweet Basil
What an adventure you survived! THank you so much for the love!